When I was younger I had a lot of success. Success that came too easy. You might wonder why that's a bad thing. But sometimes success shields you from what you are really good at, or what you really want out of life. At 32, almost 33 I'm a much different person than I was 10 years ago. Yet, 10 years ago success came about as easy as picking apples out of apple trees. I couldn't do any wrong. I build websites and they took off. They made a lot of money. But without a strong foundation in my life that money, and that success did not last.
Then came failure.
You might think I'm crazy but failure was the best thing that ever happened to me. Over the course of a few failures it shaped my soul, it shaped my mind, it created a narrower field of focus. It created a deeper desire in my heart. It helped me find myself. I was not the product of success, nor failure. All of that comes from within me.
I realized that I had sacrificed part of who I was to achieve success, and failure was my way of bringing balance back to my life. It made me realize there's a lot of me to work on still. It made me realize that I could be the architect and designer of my life. That I didn't have to take every opportunity and run with it.
It made me realize that with hard work, with desire, and with passion that I could create opportunities out of nothing. That my greatest talent, my greatest skill was my ability to create. And the world turned upside down again.